Are we giving respect to our children?


  • Many of us are parenting our children using fear so that they are always in our control and listen to what we say. Being respected and being offered a choice are rights of each and every being.
  • For example, when we call our children for dinner, many of us call shouting at them and indicating that if they don’t come they wont have food or that we will be scolding them or beating them.
  • Instead of this approach, go to them speak to them gently that you would like to have them for dinner along with other family members, and leave the decision to them. This way they will be come more capable of taking decisions.

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